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🧠 Letter 56 from a learn-it-all

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What have you rethought during these beginning months of 2021?

Hello fellow learn-it-all,

Greetings from Chicago!

I recently realized that this is my first spring in Chicago. Last year, I was living in Michigan during the pandemic. I'm really looking forward to making the most of this warmer weather and getting back into running and biking. Maybe even swimming too, if some pools open up. I love reading outside in the parks, despite the allergist telling me I'm allergic to a multitude of different grasses.

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Now, what's in store for this issue?

  1. Some lessons from the OnDeck Course Creator Fellowship
  2. A handful of takeaways from a book I started reading back during my Think Weekend
  3. An essay idea for what I have rethought over the last decade
  4. A pondering about writing your life's story
  5. A word that is something I value in thought leaders I look up to
  6. A quote from an Irish playwright on change
  7. A question to get you thinking about what you think about. Yes I know, quite meta.
  8. Some blooming flowers in one of my favorite countries
  9. A shoutout to a fellow polymath

Now, let’s dive into letter 56 from a learn-it-all. Enjoy!

🧑‍🏫 On Deck Course Creator fellowship

I completed week one of the fellowship. Some highlights of notes on student and teacher mindsets are:

📖 Reading

I finally finished up reading Think Again by Adam Grant. I preordered his book back in October and have been reading it a glacial speed to connect the concepts to my prior knowledge. I can see myself rereading this book again in 2021.

Without writing a whole book to summarize the book, here are a few of my favorite things:

Favorite exercises

To instill intellectual humility (knowing what you don't know), make a long list of areas where you are ignorant. This allows you to recognize any shortcomings and open the doors to doubt. It simultaneously allows us to become curious about the information we're missing. To scratch the surface of this list myself:

Permanent marker into your calendar career check-ins, like your 6-month teeth cleaning at the dentist. Ask yourself:

  1. When did you form the aspiration you're currently pursuing and how have you changed since then?
  2. Have you reached a learning plateau in your role or workplace and is it time to consider a pivot to avoid identity foreclosure?

Favorite model

Four different modes of thinking we fall into based on our profession:

The ideal to lean towards in life is to be a scientist.

Favorite takeaways

Favorite quote

“If knowledge is power, knowing what we don’t know is wisdom.” –Adam Grant

Favorite question to ponder

To figure out if your work is meaningful ask: If this job didn't exist, how much worse off would people be?

Favorite coined phrases

Fat-cat syndrome: resting on our laurels instead of pressure testing our beliefs

Armchair quarterback syndrome: someone blind to their weaknesses, with failure to admit mistakes, and exuding confidence over nonexistent competence

Favorite word

Blirtatiousness: A combination of blurting and flirting. A measure of how "loose and fast" you are when communicating with other people. In other words, do you blurt out?

Favorite writing style from Grant

When he inserted nerdy jokes in italicized text from his own persona experiences of when he messed up as well while rethinking showing his human side. You best believe I was drawing smiley faces and writing LOL all over my marginalia.

🖊 Writing

When reading Think Again, it got me thinking reflectively about what I've rethought in my years. Here's a laundry list of a some things I've changed my mind on over the last decade:

Inspired by one of my heroes Adam Grant, I'm going to write an essay more cohesively about things I've change my mind on. If you have ideas of how to converge these divergent ideas, let me know. I appreciate more than you know if you hit reply to this email.

💭 Pondering

How can we be more intentional about the characters, events, and locations that make up our life story. It's up to our own choices to decide how much of the plot will be dominated by one definition of home, person, or version of success. That is incredibly empowering, while also freakishly terrifying.

🔎 Word to define

Humility: the state or quality of being humble.

Freedom from pride and arrogance; lowliness of mind; a modest estimate of one's own worth; a sense of one's own unworthiness through imperfection and sinfulness; self-abasement; humbleness.

Having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance. A similar phrase is using my humble abode. It refers to one's home with an ironic or humorous show of modesty or humility.

Etymology: Middle English: from Old French humilite, from Latin humilitas, ‘low, lowly’, from humus ‘ground’.

Example: Humans have a competitive advantage in future of work against machines because we are less robotic and can show humility towards one another with our mistakes.

🌟 Quote to inspire

"Progress is impossible without change; and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything." –George Bernard Shaw

❓ Question to think about

What have you rethought during these beginning months of 2021?

📷 Photos of the Week

I haven't taken nearly enough photos yet this spring of the blooming flowers. For now, these from the Keukenhof circa 2017 will suffice. What did I just say? The Keukenhof in layman's terms is described in the Netherlands as "the most beautiful spring garden in the world". It is also known as the Garden of Europe.

According to the official website, Keukenhof Park covers an area of 32 hectares and approximately 7 million flower bulbs are planted in the gardens annually. I visited with my brother Mitch when he was visiting me for two weeks in 2017. I'd never seen so many tulips in my life. They are, to this day, my favorite flower.

Fun fact: The tulip bubble happened during the Golden Age in the Netherlands in 1636. It  meant that there was a frenzy for the flower that created outrageous prices for exotic flower bulbs.

Thought experiment: which of these next two photos resonate with you more?

For me, it’s the first one. I’ve always seen myself as a late bloomer. I got my growth spurt last in middle school, so I never got to be a setter on the volleyball team. I chose my major last in college. I took a break from corporate America before entering the “real world” after college. Don’t get me wrong that I have a competitive nature, but I don’t get the point of racing especially when certain things are out of your control or if it’s to live up to the blind expectations of others.

What’s wrong with being a tortoise who is racing their own competition. Slow and steady. I'd say that's a slogan for my life, as long I finish what I set out to do, I'm proud.

🙏 Shoutouts

I appreciate you reading this! If certain ideas resonated or you have feedback to improve my future newsletters, I’d love you to leave a comment, reply to this email, or send me a message on Twitter @JenVermet.

Never stop learning 😁

Until next week,


P.S. if you're interested in some inspiration about charting the path less traveled, look here.

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